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QTMs for 6/30/16: 5 THINGS HATE WILL DO

Posted by on June 30, 2016

They used to tell me in vacation Bible school, “Only hate what God hates.”

It intrigued me that God hates lima beans, being left, and Mrs. Muhlrennan’s nasty little Chihuahua.  I built a fairly sturdy theology on that revelation until I saw I had it backwards.

I pled my case to no avail.  “No, Danny; it doesn’t do you any good for me to tell you what God hates.  Here’s a list of Bible verses that you need to read and find out for yourself.  Go look them up, write them down and bring that list back.”

Nice Danny would eagerly list those for you here, panting and big-eyed like a puppy wanting somebody to Throw The Stick.  Some time after my gut began dying I came to realize part of the stress that culminated in code black entrails was caused by my being nice to everyone except me.

I gave myself permission to stop that nonsense.  I realized that even other relatively nice people will sit on their hands and wait on me to be nice and prefer them instead of taking care of myself, doing what I need to be doing instead of forever doing for them what they should’ve been doing for themselves.  Don’t get high-centered on the long sentence.

Yes.  You understand correctly.  I’m not giving you that list, nor am I giving you the Scripture references.  Study aids abound in print and online.  I’ll refer to 1 John 2-3 to give you a starting point, in that the old disciple and Jesus’s closest earthly friend speaks of what love is and isn’t.

It is eye-opening to sit and stare at what God hates.  Even more so to compare with what and whom we allow ourselves to hate . . .  and what happens when we do.

  1. Hating blinds you to anything good in the one(s) you’re targeting.  No human is always only evil, any more than they are always only good.  I recall a racial and political activist once saying on an open mic, “I don’t want to have any white friends.  If I did I might like ’em, and I don’t want to like them!” Goodness exists in us all, but hatred obscures every bit of it.
  2. Hating makes your ability to reason vanish.  “What did I ever do to you?”  Those were the shocked dying words of a shooting victim.  Grinding, teeth-gnashing hatred dissolves any ability to sit and calmly assess the logic and possible outcomes of one’s action.
  3. Hating erases the lines civilized, rational persons never normally cross.  Ol’ John refers to Cain who murdered his brother as being “blinded by the darkness” (2:11).  There wasn’t any reason for the killing save Cain couldn’t stand God smiling on Abel and blessing him while ignoring Cain.  The reason:  Abel paid attention to God’s direction and did it His way.  Cain didn’t.  Choice.  Consequences.  But the hating mind always blames the hated.
  4. Hating absorbs more and more of you, cauterizing any remaining “human” emotions and affecting your health.  Think ‘The Borg’.  Resistance is futile; hatred will absorb you.  Hatred, unchecked, invades you like a psychological tumor.  Soon you’re thinking, then doing things you’d be stunned to face, were someone to confront you.  Far from taking care of yourself, you do only what’s necessary to keep functioning, funneling more and more energy and attention into The Hating Game.  Only it’s no game.
  5.  you give hatred its head, soon the only people spending time around you are fellow haters.  I don’t want to elaborate here.  Every waking, breathing, thinking moment is spent discussing, visualizing, planning how to get back at the object and subject of your hatred.  Even what might loosely seem like socializing is ugly, seamy, using even the finest intellect to disparage and destroy the hated.

Read through John’s 3 little letters way in the back of your Bible.  Compare two or three different translations you prefer. . .

In 1976 I was stationed with the 21st NORAD Control Center in Ft. Lee, VA.  We took the opportunity several times to visit surrounding historical places including Washington, D.C.  On one such trip, we were touring the U. S. Mint, standing on an elevated walkway and looking down on what seemed like 20 or 30 specialists all hunched over their workstations, painstakingly scanning sheets of freshly-printed $100 bills.  A member of the group asked how long they had to study counterfeit bills to do that job.  The guide surprised us:

“Oh, we never spend any time looking at counterfeits.  We train by looking at the genuine bills so much that we can spot a counterfeit in an instant.”

To understand the destructive power unleashed through hatred, John spent his time shining the Light on what is God’s concept of love.  Get that firmly in mind, and we’ll be able to pick right up on hate.

Or, as one believer put it, “God, give me real eyes to tell the real lies so I can realize where the real lies.”

© D. Dean Boone, June 2016

 

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